Womens Dating Advice Guide
Many single women pursue relationship
advice to learn dating strategies or techniques and receive the
neccesary guidance they need to be successful. Here is a list of ten
strategies for successful dating.
If you are dating to find a long-term
relationship, the following strategies will help you to meet the love
of your life and settle down into a satisfying, long-term
relationship. If you are already in a relationship, many of these same
strategies can put some spice back into an already loving
Here are ten strategies for
1. If you are a woman who generally
pursues men first, stop and allow men to pursue you. If you are a man
who waits for women to ask you out, take the first step and ask them
out instead. A woman pursuing a man sets up an uncomfortable power
dynamic that is difficult to change later.
2. Stay away from verbal foreplay
early on in the relationship. Engage in sexual-type talk only after
you know each other well, at least a few months into the relationship.
These types of conversations can become the central focus of your
interactions, making it harder to experience other parts of your
3. Don't have a sexual relationship
until you are committed to and love each other. This may seem old
fashioned; however, relationships are partnerships. Although sexuality
is a part of a relationship, it is not a good foundation on which to
build a relationship. If you build your relationship on sex, it will
most likely fall like a house of cards.
4. Limit your time together in the
beginning. See or be on the phone with each other in moderation. How
is a house built? Brick by brick. How have you developed friendships?
Over time. Does an intimate relationship deserve any less?
5. Spend more time courting in person
rather than by email or phone. Electronic communication has an aspect
of anonymity and safety. It allows for a false sense of closeness. If
this is your primary mode of communication, you may feel awkward with
each other in person.
6. Be yourself at all times in the
dating process. Doing so allows both of you to clearly see if the
relationship will work. If you are compatible, you will discover more
things to like about each other. If you are not compatible, you will
be able to find out sooner rather than later.
7. Be clear from the start about how
you want and don't want to be treated. It is better to know how your
new partner responds to your boundaries and standards.
8. Be aware of who your new partner
is. At the same time, don't automatically assume he will disappoint
you in the same ways you have been disappointed before. Give him a
chance to treat you well rather than testing to see if he will cause
9. Accept your new partner as she is
or don't engage in the relationship. If her behavior bothers you but
doesn't bother her, you can be sure that this behavior will continue.
Accept how your new partner is now, rather than hoping for change, or
10. Enjoy. Have fun. Connect. Learn.
Dating is wonderful. It's a chance to meet new and interesting people
and do fun activities. It's an opportunity for growth. If you do it
gently, without jeopardizing your emotional well-being, it will add
sparkle to your life.
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